“Why won’t you just go with the flow?” “You’re so disorganized!” “Why did we even get married?” Here’s a better question: How can couples therapy work for every couple? Let’s face it: sometimes, familiarity breeds contempt. The spontaneity that you used to love about your partner now feels like a great obstacle between you and a well-planned family vacation. The affection that you once craved now feels like suffocation—or worse—is completely absent. You’ve asked your partner to change, but conversations feel like accusations and promises go unfulfilled…

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